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Understanding Suffering: The Conventional Self in Buddhism

  • Writer: Bruce Hogen Lambson
    Bruce Hogen Lambson
  • Aug 6
  • 3 min read

Updated: Sep 12

The Concept of No Self in Buddhism


In Buddhism, it is said that under ultimate reasoning analysis, there is no inherently existing self to be found. There is a dependently arising conventional self, which is the one we are most familiar with, but this doesn't truly exist either.


Why Does the Conventional Self Experience Suffering?


The conventional self is the part of us that experiences suffering. But why is this the case?


In Buddhism, the concepts of "no inherently existing self" (anatta) and the "conventional self" are central to understanding suffering (dukkha). Let’s break this down clearly.


The conventional self refers to the everyday sense of "I" or "me" that we experience. It is a temporary, constructed identity based on the five aggregates: form, sensation, perception, mental formations, and consciousness. These aggregates are impermanent, constantly changing, and interdependent. They lack a fixed or independent essence. The conventional self is merely a practical label for this bundle of processes. It is useful for navigating life but not ultimately real.


The Ultimate Perspective


From an ultimate perspective, there is no inherently existing self—no permanent, independent entity that exists on its own. Everything, including the self, arises dependently and lacks an unchanging core.


So, why does the conventional self suffer if there’s no ultimate self? Suffering arises due to ignorance of this ultimate truth. The conventional self suffers because it clings to the illusion of a permanent, independent "I." This ignorance leads to attachment (to pleasures, identity, or views), aversion (to pain or unwanted experiences), and delusion, which fuel the cycle of suffering.


The Cycle of Suffering


For example:


  • Attachment: The conventional self craves pleasant experiences, assuming they define or belong to "me."

  • Aversion: It resists pain or change, fearing the loss of identity.

  • Delusion: It misperceives the aggregates as a fixed self, leading to endless cycles of grasping and dissatisfaction.


In the ultimate sense, there’s no "self" to suffer. However, suffering persists conventionally because the mind constructs and believes in this illusory self.


The Path to Liberation


The path to liberation in Buddhism involves realizing anatta through practices like meditation and wisdom. These practices dismantle ignorance. When the illusion of the self is fully seen through, suffering ceases, as there’s no "self" to cling to or react.


In short, the conventional self suffers because it’s a construct rooted in ignorance, mistaking impermanent processes for a permanent entity. Liberation comes from understanding that there’s no self to suffer in the first place.


No Self Equals No Worries?


Pretty much! In Buddhism, realizing "no self" (anatta) cuts through the root of suffering. If there's no inherent "I" to cling to, there's nothing to worry about—no one to lose, no one to defend, and no one to crave. The conventional self frets because it thinks it’s real and permanent. See through that illusion, and the worries dissolve.


The Challenge of Letting Go


Easier said than done, though! It takes practice to let go of the "me" habit.


In my next post, I will discuss why the Noble Eightfold Path is perfectly designed to overcome the problem of suffering brought on by ignorance of how objects, persons, and phenomena truly exist.


Conclusion


Understanding the nature of the conventional self is crucial for alleviating suffering. By recognizing the impermanent and constructed nature of our identities, we can begin to break free from the cycles of attachment and aversion. This journey towards liberation is not only transformative but essential for achieving lasting peace and happiness.


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